Szalay is a new to me author. He recently won the coveted Booker Award for 2025, otherwise I probably would never have read his work. But since my husband and I follow the Booker Prize closely, we immediately got a hold of Flesh. Here is my book review Flesh by David Szalay.
Sex
I’ll be right up front about this. There is A LOT of explicit sex in this book. If that bothers you, this book is not for you.
Sparse
Sparse is the word I have chosen to describe this novel. The dialogue is sparse, and the story itself is pretty bare bones. I found the narrative style a bit difficult, dialogue of one and two word sentences for much of the book. Szalay is known for this kind of writing, but it’s not my favorite.
Story
The story follows Hungarian born Istevan through out his life, starting when he is 15 years old. Istevan encounters multiple circumstances through out his life that will take him from rags to riches. He does not always make the best choices, although he is not an unlikable character. He is however an unfortunate character, whose own actions thrust him from problem to problem throughout his life.
It’s a fairly short, and unhappy book of one man’s life. From humble beginnings to incredible wealth and back to simple life.
Book Review Flesh by David Szalay
I did not love this book. But you might. It’s an interesting choice for such an important award. I have read a lot of Booker Prize winning books, but recently I have not been a fan of the choices. That said, Szalay is definitely talented, and this book certainly has people talking.
**Two stars for Flesh by David Szalay.
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We just returned from two weeks in Europe, where we did our first-ever river cruise. The cruise we chose was with Viking River Cruises and was focused on Christmas Markets along the Rhine and Main Rivers. Given how we usually travel independently, I wasn’t sure what to expect with this cruise. But we had a very enjoyable time. There were a few things we didn’t love, but overall it was fun. So if you are considering visiting European Christmas Markets with Viking River Cruises, here is my report.
Viking River Cruises Longship the Modi
Onboard the Modi
Before I tell you about each of the Christmas Markets, let me tell you about our experience onboard the Modi. Known as longships, the river fleet in Europe each holds 190 passengers. Since we were new to this kind of travel, we chose the least expensive room called a Riverview.
Here’s a breakdown of typical room types on Viking Longships:
Riverview Staterooms: On the Main Deck, these have fixed windows located higher up on the wall for views, often slightly larger than French Balcony rooms.
French Balcony Staterooms: Feature a floor-to-ceiling sliding glass door, but without space for chairs outside, allowing the room to feel more open.
Veranda Staterooms: The most common type, offering a full outdoor balcony with seating for two.
Veranda Suites: Two-room accommodations with a separate living area and a full balcony off the living room, plus a French balcony in the bedroom.
Explorer Suites: The largest suites, located at the stern, featuring two rooms and a wraparound balcony.
Our Riverview room
Comfortable
What About the Cost?
Because a river cruise is significantly more expensive than an ocean cruise (and way more than our usual day to day travel costs) this less expensive room was just fine for us. We had plenty of room, storage and the bed was very comfortable.
Each day on the cruise we were provided at least one excursion at no cost. Additional excursions were available for a fee. Additionally special lectures, music and even high tea provided more entertainment.
Three meals a day were provided on the ship. During meals, wine or beer is included. Additional alcoholic beverages outside of meal time were available at a cost in the lounge. Guest who want to drink more alcohol have an option to purchase a beverage package. We did not do that.
Before dinner drink in the lounge
Afternoon delight in the lounge
The food on board was very good. Most meals exceptional. Additionally the staff both in the restaurant and elsewhere was superb.
Wide range of breakfast options
I did not have dessert at every meal but this one was exceptional
Chateaubriand was on point
Our ten day cruise from Basel Switzerland to Nuremberg Germany cost $9200 for two people. When comparing costs with ocean cruises keep in mind the wine and beer at meals on Viking River Cruises is included (ocean cruises you pay a lot for drinks) and the fact that daily at least one excursion is included with your cruise.
This cost however is significantly more than our normal daily travel costs. For comparison the total cost of this 14 day trip was about the same as our 26 day Stans Tour with Intrepid Travel or 35 days on our own in Bordeaux France. Our thirty day stay in Philippines was a third of what we spent on the cruise.
Sundeck on board
Europe is Magical in the Winter
We did not see snowfall, but we had some cold, crisp days and we found that added to the festive atmosphere of the Christmas Markets. I have become a big fan of off-season travel, but that said the Christmas Markets can get very busy. In fact, due to a lot of travel “influencers”, European Christmas Markets are now generally crowded. During our cruise we visited a total of ten Christmas markets. Some very big and busy, others small and very local. Below are my thoughts on each of the nine.
Things to Know
Before I go market by market let me explain a couple of things. Firstly, the mugs. Each European Christmas Market has mug for the popular Gluhwein. These mugs change annually and are a popular collectors item. Gluhwein is a hot mulled wine served throughout Europe during the holidays. Mugs of warm Gluhwein are available for purchase and you pay a deposit for the mug. If you want to keep the mug you don’t get your deposit back. Or, return the mug to any vendor throughout the market and your deposit is returned. I kept two mugs from Heidelberg and two mugs from Wurzburg. Other drinks like hot chocolate are also available in the mugs.
I mug in every port
Some people collect them all
Local food items are available at the markets, with popular choices being bratwurst and other sausages, potato pancakes (called Kartoffelpuffer ), raclette, fish sandwiches, pork burgers, lots of sweets and more.
OMG
Kartoffelpuffer
Visiting the markets via land perhaps by train would be just as fun, maybe more so. Ten markets was too many, as they begin to all blur together after awhile. I was expecting each to be unique, but they were very similar. I was expecting more handmade local items for sale, but we only found that in a couple of places. Most items were mass produced somewhere else. That was disappointing.
These types of items at every market
FRANKFURT GERMANY
We arrived in Frankfurt from our Seattle flight, and planned two nights in this city before heading to the cruise. So on our own we found our way around Frankfurt. Frankfurt’s Christmas Market is one of the oldest and largest markets in Germany dating back to 1391.
Don’t miss: The Main Christmas Market is spread out near the Cathedral. Be sure to visit Frankfurt’s treasured jewel, the Imperial Cathedral of Saint Bartholomew. If you have extra time in Frankfurt like we did I recommend the Stadel Art Museum and walking across the Iron Bridge
Frankfurt Market
Reflecting
Frankfurt
Frankfurt Cathedral
BASEL SWITZERLAND
We took the train from Frankfurt to the border town of Basel Switzerland, and the three hour ride was on time, clean and comfortable. We had a full day and night in Basel before boarding the ship.
Basel is a wonderful mix of old and new and the medieval Old Town’s pastel buildings date back to the 15th century.
Don’t miss: We really enjoyed the Basel market and sampled raclette, sausages, potato pancakes and lots of Gluhwein. There is a market in the cathedral square overlooking the city, and another at the bottom of the hill. The old town is beautiful with the Rathaus and square and also it’s worth it to visit Freie Strasse pedestrian street, walk across the holiday lit historic Mittlere bridge and visit the Spalentor gate.
Raclette is always served with potatoes and pickles
Basel Town Square
Mittlere bridge
Basel Cathedral
Before leaving Switzerland we enjoyed an optional shore excursion to indulge in the Swiss tradition of Fondue. I highly recommend this when in Switzerland. We learned a lot and we ate a lot.
Fondue Fun
Swiss Fondue
BREISACH GERMANY
We sailed over night and woke up in Breisach Germany, the gateway to the Black Forest. It was an early departure day for the excursion we chose. We boarded a comfortable coach to drive away from the river and into the mountains.
Bucolic scenes from the bus window
Hey that’s snow
Don’t miss: The drive was beautiful and we even saw some snow. But the best part was seeing the beautiful old villages where the German people have lived and toiled for generations. Our destination this day was the touristic village of Hofgut Sternen. Here we enjoyed a short hike to an ancient tiny church. Next we had time to watch glass blowing and learn about the art of Cuckoo Clock making, before learning how the famous Black Forest Cake is made. And if that wasn’t enough, we also had a wonderful lunch around an open outdoor fire pit.
Hofgut Sternen
Short walk to historic chapel
Gorgeous but expensive
I’m gonna make a Black Forest Cake when I get home
Despite the long bus ride, this was one of my favorite days.
Cold and sunny creekside lunch
STRASBOURG FRANCE
Sailing overnight we awoke in France. Bonjour! Strasbourg is home to the oldest Christkindelmarkt in Europe, dating back to 1570. Petite France, the jewel of Strasbourg, is a UNESCO World Heritage Site with its stunning half timbered houses and winding canal.
Canals of Petite France
Unfortunately the day we visited the market was very crowded and the line to get inside the massive and gorgeous Notre Dame cathedral was so long. Despite the hype, this was one of my least favorite markets.
Canal Cruise boat offers great views
Half Timbered homes on the canal
Don’t miss: The best part of our day was the canal cruise, where we learned from our guide fantastic history of this beautiful city. Weather was sunny and the canal boat with so many windows made the experience great. I really wanted several more hours in this city. But we had to head back because we had a second afternoon excursion to…
Strasbourg at Christmas
Notre Dame Cathedral
Retired French Bakers come together for the market
Thank you Retired French Bakers!
Gengenbach Germany
I signed up for this optional excursion on the same day as Strasbourg, specifically to have an opportunity for a night market. We took a coach about an hour from Strasbourg to the tiny town of Gengenbach.
Ahhhh. That’s better. Not too crowded and the prices were great. Beautiful medieval town that still lives and breathes and is not just for tourists. The market was a comfortable size to walk around and unlike Strasbourg many of the booths were locally made items.
Obilquetory Gluhwein
Gengenbach
Don’t miss: Gengenbach’s historic center is a protected area, part of Germany’s Timber-Frame Road. Gengenbach is a popular destination, famous for its well-preserved medieval old town and its unique tradition of turning the City Hall into the worlds largest Advent Calendar. The evening included live music and a Christmas performance by local children. This is much more what I expected from a European Christmas Markets with Viking River Cruises.
Gengenbach was just the right size
Beautiful Gengenbach
KARLSRUHE GERMANY
This day we squeezed in two excursions again. Waking up we found ourselves in port in the town of Plittersdorf. We boarded the coaches for the drive to Karlsruhe. Nicknamed The Fan City due to the street layout, Karlsruhe is home to the Karslruhe Palace. Built in 1715 by Margrave (Prince) Karl Wilhelm of Baden-Durlach it embodies his vision of newly found city.
Karlsruhe Palace
Botanical Gardens
Don’t miss: Karlsruhe has several markets, all very small. This was my least favorite stop of our cruise, however I give the prize for best decorated market booths to the market at Friedrichsplatz. For a small market each vendor had beautifully decorated and festive presence, each unique.
Decorations were so well done
Hot Chocolate was amazing
Baden Baden Germany
This optional excursion to Baden Baden was excellent. And possibly my favorite market, or at least in the top three, of the ten we visited. The UNESCO World Heritage site, Baden Baden is a famous spa town nestled in the Black Forest. Known for its storied history, luxurious spas and healing waters, elegant architecture and cultural vibrancy, it reminded me of a smaller Vienna.
Beautiful Casino decor
Casino Christmas Tree
Baden Baden Spa
Baden Baden Cathedral
Don’t miss – we really enjoyed our guided tour learning history of the popular destination in the 19th century where European royalty came to “take the waters”. Visiting the beautiful spa building, opera house, casino and enjoying the dozens of créche scenes were outstanding. Great food and items for sale, all surrounding a beautiful square and Christmas tree. The local cathedral, though not ancient is also a beautiful sight.
One of dozens créche on display
More bratwurst!
More Gluhwein
Baden Baden
Moonrise over Baden Baden
Heidelberg Germany
Next morning we woke up in Frankfurt. Since we had already enjoyed two days there (see earlier comments) we chose to do the included all day tour to Heidelberg. Although it was a long day, it was one of our most enjoyable.
A very cold day on Heidelberg’s Old Bridge
Heidelberg, Germany, boasts a rich history as the former capital of the Palatinate, home to Germany’s oldest university (founded 1386), and a symbol of German Romanticism, featuring magnificent castle ruins that survived major wars. Its story spans Celtic/Roman settlements, medieval growth, devastation in the Thirty Years’ War, a Baroque rebuilding, 19th-century cultural bloom, and its post-WWII status as a scientific hub, largely spared from bombing, preserving its historic charm.
I liked these mugs
Heidelberg’s Pyrimid was one of the best
Festive lunch at Kulturbrauerei
This very nice student is from India
Don’t miss – The Heidelberg old town is long and narrow and the Christmas Markets here are spread out throughout several different squares. The Old Bridge is a highlight and it’s an absolutely must to go up to the historic castle ruins overlooking the town. We also enjoyed a visit to the famous Kathe Wohlfahrt store, known throughout the world for Christmas items. A highlight of this day was lunch at a famous restaurant called Kulturbrauerei, where we ate with students from the Heidelberg University. A special treat to talk to them and learn their stories. Food was great too.
Ruins of the Heidelberg Castle
View from the Heidelberg Castle
MARKTHEIDENFELD AND LOHR AM MAIN GERMANY
No excursions planned until afternoon on this day, so we actually skipped breakfast and caught up on our sleep. By this time in our trip we were both feeling exhausted, and a bit bloated from all the food! During the morning the crew provided some fun for guests including a Gingerbread demonstration and future cruise suggestions.
Gingerbread making onboard
In the afternoon we arrived at the port of Marktheidenfeld. Our included excursion today we would visit the very small town of Lohr am Main, said to be the home of the women who inspired the story of Snow White.
Fisherman statue in Lohr am Main
Ancient homes in Lohr am Main
For the tourists, a Snow White Castle
And Snow White herself
Don’t miss – Lohr am Main’s Christmas Market was a very small one, but also very local and authentic. After a brief walk around the town, where we also learned about the Snow White legend, we spent some time at the market and purchased a beautiful wooden bowl from a man who actually made the bowl. This made me happy since so much of the items for sale at the markets are mass produced.
All the locals out enjoying the tiny Lohr am Main Christmas Market
Back to the ship in Marktheidenfeld we walked around the very tiny market here as well. Another historic and authentic medieval town with half timbered buildings, this market is only held one weekend a year and we happened to be here on that weekend.
Marktheidenfeld
Beautiful and festive Marktheidenfeld
WURZBURG GERMANY
Waking up in Wurzburg, we stepped outside on the small deck to discover one of the most beautiful sites of our entire cruise. Sunrise in Wurzburg on the Main River blew me away. It’s gonna be a good day.
Wurzburg Reflection
Pinks
Guten Tag Wurzburg
Würzburg, Germany, boasts a rich history from Celtic settlements to a powerful Prince-Bishopric, a vibrant Jewish center, and a major Holy Roman Empire hub, known for its stunning Würzburg Residence (a UNESCO site) and Marienberg Fortress, though it suffered massive destruction in WWII bombings, with significant rebuilding efforts restoring its Baroque and Rococo charm, making it a significant cultural and academic city today.
Wurzberg Market
These heart shaped mugs were worth bringing home
Now that is a hot dog!
Don’t miss – many guests did a full day trip to Rothenburg, a gem of a medieval German city. But Arne and I had visited Rothenburg before, so we decided to stay closer to the ship and do a walking tour of Wurzberg. I am so glad we did. The market was good, but very similar to every other market, but I loved the heart shaped mugs. Wurzburg is also home to the UNESCO World Heritage Site Bishops Residenz sometimes called the little Versailles. Our guide was amazing and we learned a lot about the history of the Residenz as well as the rebuilding of both the Residenz and the town after WWII. I enjoyed this day very much.
Exterior of Bishops Residenz
Spectacular interior
BAMBERG GERMANY
Many cities along Germany’s great rivers are known for their wine. Bamberg however is known for it’s signature beverage: rauchbier, a smoky beer made with malt that has been dried over wood fires. We chose to do an optional excursion on this day to taste and learn more about rauchbier.
Hellerbrau smoked beer
A perfect accompaniment
Don’t miss – We were in Bamberg on a Sunday, so all the regular shops were closed. However our excursion included a brief history walking tour of this cute small town which is home to two rivers; the Main and Regnitz. Bamberg is one of the few cities in Germany not destroyed in WWII and retains a large selection of medieval structures in it’s Old Town. It was named a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 1993.
Beautiful Bamberg
More Gluhwein
Our beer tasting was remarkable. We tasted FIVE different beers from Hellerbrau founded in the 15th century, learned the nuances and history of the choices and were served a remarkable spread of pretzels, brown bread and delicious meats and cheeses. All in a historic brewery/restaurant building from the 14th century. I am so glad we did this.
What a peaceful place Bamberg was
This ancient church used to be part of the fortification walls
Bamberg Christmas Market
NUREMBERG GERMANY
It’s our final stop on this Christmas Cruise! The ship arrived early in the morning and we have a full final day. My husband and I plan to stay in a hotel and enjoy one more full day in Nuremberg after we disembark.
I thought this ancient city was beautiful
Nuremberg’s history spans from a vital medieval trade hub and Holy Roman Empire center, known for art and printing, to becoming the symbolic heart of the Nazi Party with massive rallies and discriminatory Nuremberg Laws in the 1930s. Nuremberg famously became the site of the post-war Nuremberg Trials, which established international justice for war crimes.
Where we ate- Tucher-Brau am Opernhaus this is an absolute must when in Nuremberg. Make a reservation. For lunch we highly recommend Bratwursthausle where you can sample the small Nuremberg style sausages. Be sure to get the potato salad too.
Don’t miss – Nuremberg Castle and moat area, one of the only moats remaining in Germany. The first castle on this site was built under the Salian kings respectively Holy Roman Emperors (1027–1125). Today the castle offers an interesting look into the history of this region with a stunning view of the city that has built up below.
There are several markets in Nuremberg and we tried to hit them all. The main one is in front of the City Hall building by the famous Schoner Brunnen fountain.
Heidelberg Castle
Historic buildings everywhere
Beautiful cathedral
A River Runs Through it
The historic site of the Nuremberg Trials, Courtoom 600, the post-WWII Nazi trials that changed the world forever. Don’t miss this when in Nuremberg.
River walk – stunning way to enjoy the medieval architecture
Overlooking the main market
We loved the fun Kinder market with the two story carosel
This city is beautiful, pedestrian friendly and full of fabulous restaurants and sites. I recommend it highly at Christmas time or anytime of the year.
European Christmas Markets with Viking River Cruises
Some final thoughts. Would I cruise with Viking again? Maybe. I’m just not sure group travel of this style is for us. That is not to say we didn’t have fun, but we prefer more independent travel.
Would we do the Christmas Markets again? Maybe. But only one or two. Markets are falling into the overtouristed categories, so if I were to go again I would carefully chose which ones and go as early in the season as possible.
It’s magical at night
My favorites of the markets we visited were; Nuremberg, Baden Baden, Heidelberg and Gengenbach.
Thank you for reading my long post European Christmas Markets with Viking River Cruises. I am happy to answer any questions you have about our experience. We always appreciate your pins, shares and comments. Thank you and have a very Merry Christmas!
Looking for a feel good memoir that will make you hungry and make you cry at the same time? This fabulous book is for you. Here is my book review Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner.
Family, Food and Finding Peace
I have wanted to read this book for months and I am so glad I finally got it on the top of my list. It’s a fabulous memoir of a mother daughter relationship. It’s also a love story, an education about Korean culture, and a mouthwatering look at Korean cuisine.
Korea
I’m lucky to have spent several weeks in Korea a decade ago. I find the country and the food fascinating. But I really don’t know many people who have traveled to Korea. You should. And maybe by reading this book you will understand the culture a bit more.
Michelle Zauner was born to a Korean mother and American father in 1989. She was raised in Eugene Oregon, where she had few Asian Americans in her school. Her mother, very strict with high expectations was Michelle’s closest companion, since they lived many miles out of town. In her teens, Michelle rebelled against her mother and the strict Korean rules in the house, even while loving her mother and loving the annual trips to Korea to visit her grandmother. She was conflicted about her Korean heritage and identity.
Identity
Michelle flees to the East Coast for college, where her fledgling band has a few gigs, she works in a restaurant and meets Peter her future husband. Far from her mother Michelle is able to put her “Koreanness” at arms length, even though she craves the foods of her childhood.
It’s not until her mother’s cancer diagnosis that Michelle reckons with her heritage and all she has learned from her mother.
You’re Gonna Cry
This reckoning and mother daughter relationship as Michelle’s mother is dying is a real tear jerker. Beautifully written throughout but particularly honest during this process, Zauner is a exceptional storyteller. Combining so many elements and anecdotes from her childhood, Crying in H Mart will make you go call your Mom, and crave some noodles.
Book Review Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner
*****Five stars for Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner. You definitely should read this one. Thank you for reading my book review Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner. See last week’s book review The Emperor of Gladness by Ocean Vuong here.
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A sad but sometimes funny story of people trying to survive on the margins of life, in a broken down post industrial town in Connecticut. Here is my book review The Emperor of Gladness by Ocean Vuong.
The Emperor of Gladness
The title made me think this book was about a person…I imagined someone with a positive attitude living a positive life. Well, that is not what this book is. Very much the opposite. The Emperor of Gladness is not a person but more of a state of mind. Throughout the novel we follow a cast of characters who become the most unlikely friends. Each one dealing in their own way with the suffering of the world.
Hai
When we meet Hai, he is standing on a bridge in the dark about to end his life. Addiction has plagued him and he has lied so egregiously to his mother to make her happy he sees no way to come clean. But then he hears someone calling to him and he meets an old woman living in a dilapidated house on the edge of the bridge. Hai and Grazina, who suffers from dementia, will form an improbably bond as he becomes her caretaker.
The HomeMarket
Hai goes to the local HomeMarket, a kind of slow food grocery, to find his cousin Sony and try to get a job. Sony introduces Hai to BJ the manager and she hires him. Over the next month Hai will befriend the quirky collection of addicts, veterans, dreamers and a civil war history enthusiast to form a sort of family, as he continues to care for Grazina and lie to his mother.
Suffering
As Grazina’s dementia spirals, her son realizes Hai is not a trained nurse and calls the cops. At the same time BJ is forced by the corporate office to let Sony go and in his despair he runs away. Hai wants so much to save them both, save everyone, and elemenate all their suffering. The ragtag group of friends with Grazina in tow go on one last adventure, in an effort to help Sony.
Witty and Moving
This is not a happy story, but you feel such empathy for these odd characters. This book is a moving look at those in our midst living on the edge of sanity, those in our society on the margins who have so little and only want to be loved. The ending is ambiguous, apparently by design. What will happen to Hai? Can he find peace in this harsh world of suffering?
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Thanks as always for the love you give to this blog, now in it’s 14th year. I feel so blessed by all of you. This past year we have had some posts absolutely hit the record…with more views, reads and comments than ever before. So as I do at the end of each year, here is a list of your favorites – the Top Blog Posts of 2025 for My Fab Fifties Life.
Number One
To my surprise, the most read post of the year was about Cleveland Ohio. This was unexpected to me…I assumed one of my European blogs or Australian posts would have that title. But no, Cleveland Ohio Museums Not to Miss is the winner by a landslide. Loved both on Pinterest and for views and reads on the blog.
Cleveland Ohio Museums Not to Miss
A Very Close Second Place
Coming in second but only by a thread, was my very recent post Time to Plan New England in the Fall. If you have not done a fall color trip yet, use our guide to plan one now. We really enjoyed it, and apparently you enjoyed reading about it.
My Favorite Day Trips from Bordeaux and Bountiful Bordeaux, Eating My Way Through the City
The Great Ocean Road Victoria Australia Our very long stay in Australia resulted in multiple blog posts, but this one in particular really got a lot of love.
Hidden Gems of the Pacific Northwest – Port Angeles and the Olympic National Park
And these two rewrites that were updated and reposted in February also make the list. Both continue to be top performers year after year since they first were written in 2020;
Maui on a Budget It’s clear by the continued traction this post gets how much people are trying to visit Maui without breaking the bank. I’m glad we can help.
And there you have it. Your favorites of the year – Top Blog Posts of 2025.
More Great Posts on the Way
No blog post next Friday but come back after that for a report about our Winter European River Cruise. And in mid-January our annual World Travel Awards for 2025. Thanks for your continued support. We love it when you share our blog posts.
In a small Ohio town over five decades, Ryan creates a unique and engaging cast of characters in Buckeye. I listened to this on on Audible on our long road trip in October. Here is my book review Buckeye by Patrick Ryan.
Small Town Life
A small farming community in Ohio is the setting for Buckeye, a story that spans two world wars and a depression. This tight knit community is home to Cal, whose one leg too short keeps him from enlisting in the war. His beautiful wife Betsy has a gift. She can communicate with people who have passed on. Cal doesn’t believe this gift is true, and as Betsy pursues helping people in the community to communicate with the dead, their relationship becomes strained.
Margaret has a past secret. She is not the woman she claims to be, hiding her abandonment and the fact she grew up in an orphanage. She marries Felix, who also carries his own secret. Felix knows he is gay, and has had a couple of sexual encounters in his youth. But it’s not until he is drafted in WWII that he meets the love of his life.
While Felix is away, and Betsy is busy with her clients, Cal and Margaret will find each other.
Post War
Margaret has been told Felix is missing in action, and she is ashamed that she is somewhat relieved. Margaret does not want children, and she has fallen in love with Cal. But an unexpected twist will change everything, causing Margaret to abandon her entire life, while Cal and Betsy try to pick up the pieces of their marriage.
Empathy
I had a lot of empathy for these characters in this book, particularly for Felix and his struggle with being a homosexual during this era. The book explores several important topics including abandonment, infidelity, grief and regret. Mostly regret.
Book Review Buckeye by Patrick Ryan
****Four stars for Buckeye by Patrick Ryan. Thank you for reading my book review Buckeye by Patrick Ryan. See last week’s Book Review The Elements by John Boyne.
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I’m finally doing a river cruise. Am I the last person on earth to try it? I know TONS of people absolutely love this form of travel, but it has not yet made it into our top choices. We have done several ocean cruises over the past four decades, but over the last nine years we have stuck pretty much to independent travel, with a tour thrown in here and there.
Viking River Cruises Modi. This is our ship.
And yet, I am intrigued by how many of my personal friends think river cruising is amazing. And so, why not? We booked a cruise from Basel Switzerland to Nuremburg Germany with Viking River Cruises. Our itinerary hits all the gorgeous European Christmas Markets along the way. I’ve wanted to do a winter Christmas Market visit for awhile, so lets go! Let’s talk about a Winter Wardrobe for European Christmas Market Cruise.
I’ve been dreaming about this for a few years! (Canva)
Packing for a Winter River Cruise
Over the past couple of years we have found ourselves in more winter destinations than when we first started traveling. But this is the first time I have packed exclusively for a winter destination. Although cruising is not the big fashion show with sequins and tuxedos that it used to be, there still is an element of casual elegance with warmth and comfort. I tried to figure out how to do carry-on bags only on this trip, due specifically to the issues with air travel right now. But, we have determined to check one bag and bring two carry ons, distributing our essentials amongst the three just in case. And I also expect to bring some fun gifts and souvenirs home! Here is what I have put together for 16 days of travel;
The Basics
I feel pretty good about this capsule wardrobe and its mix and match possibilities. I am bringing black pants, a black skirt, navy pants and my olive green corduroy pants. All of these are comfortable and easy to mix and match with multiple sweaters and tops. I have three blouses, five sweaters (red, burgundy, green, grey, black) and two long sleeve print t-shirts. I might remove one sweater…still thinking on it. Exactly how many sweaters does a girl need for a Winter Wardrobe for European Christmas Market Cruise?
Black Pants and my new long sleeve print t-shirt and green sweater
Black Skirt, Button down and grey cardigan
Black pants, black turtleneck and my trusty denim shirt
New sweater from Nordstrom will go with all of my bottoms
Black leopard print top works with both pants and skirt
I love these new olive corduroys I just got from Nordstrom. My choice over jeans
Emerald Green is a good color for me and works with black and navy
Corduroy’s with the Talbots t-shirt and grey cardigan
Shoes and Boots
We won’t be doing any hiking or running on this trip, but we will be doing a lot of walking. I have two pairs of sturdy, comfortable, winter walking shoes as well as one pair of black booties. No dressy heels made the cut. But my slippers did.
When we were in Italy I couple winters ago I bought these black loafers at a leather shop and they are hands down the best shoes I have ever worn.
New and comfy loafers from Vionic
Waterproof black booties are Blondo from Nordstrom and such a great winter walking boot
Keeping Warm
I am bringing my puffy jacket which is black and goes with everything. I am also bringing my Hele Hanson navy blue raincoat. The puffy coat fits under the rain coat if needed. One pair of gloves and three hats. Also an umbrella. We are expecting temperatures in the mid-30’s to the high 40’s fahrenheit.
I am bringing my comfy pajamas which I just purchased from the Vermont Country Store as well as my slippers. Gotta stay cozy.
My down puffy jacket is from Lands End
One of the best purchases I ever made was this Navy Helle Hanson raincoat
Accesories
Scarfs are your friend. I wear scarfs more than I wear necklaces at home and when traveling. Scarfs are light weight and diverse. I have two large multicolor cotton scarfs and one warm fuzzy scarf for outdoors. I will pack just a couple of pairs of versatile earrings. Nothing of value.
Brand new Navy trousers from Talbots are so comfortable. Paired with this older red poncho I love
The Navy pants and this green sweater are so versatile
And the work horse of any good wardrobe, a denim shirt.
Underneath it All
Of course I have undies and bras, and I have been pretty particular about choosing socks that for me have been great for walking. I have one pair of tights and just for good measure I’m throwing in my silk long underwear. We hope to not need laundry service, and all my underthings are made for fast dry so I can do hand laundry when on the go.
Onboard I wear comfy but warm with layers. This is my airplane outfit.
Winter Wardrobe European Christmas Market Cruise
Keeping it basic with basic colors that mix and match, sturdy, comfy yet stylish shoes and functional outerwear. That’s my plan for for my first river cruise and my long awaited European Christmas Market fun!
I won’t be posting a blog about the cruise until we get home, but I hope you will follow along on Instagram and Facebook where I will post everyday starting tomorrow!
See last week’s blog post Time to Plan New England in the Fall, the final post of our October road trip. Thanks as always for following our world travels. Please share, comment and pin this post.
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